Friend seems to be avoiding talk of my transition with each month, anyone experience similar?

2021.10.16 01:52 Aniform Friend seems to be avoiding talk of my transition with each month, anyone experience similar?

This friend of mine was one of the last people I came out to. It was, now that I'm thinking of it, in order from far left down to... well nearly right. I've still got one more Trump-loving friend I haven't told and I kinda got more freaked out now that they're using us as their latest culture war. Though, I think my coming out will cause his perspective to shift, I just haven't had the courage.
The friend in question, however, is somewhere center, maybe more Libertarian (lol, so center-right). He is honestly my closest friend and it would suck to lose the friendship. I live in the Northeast and it was a further concern with him moving out to the West Coast for a couple years. I figured, he could easily use this opportunity to kick me to the curb.
Fortunately, he didn't and his response was better than expected, he outright accepted me, told me we're friends no matter what, and even extended an offer that if I needed any help during my transition, he was there. It was great and over the next few weeks and couple months we'd talk about it. No question was forbidden. He worked hard to correct himself if he misgendered me or if he deadnamed me.
Then, I noticed that slowly changing. His wife still calls me by my name, but he started using my last name to refer to me. Which, I decided not to take issue with at the time, even though the whole calling people by their last names I view as something guys (or my guy friends) do. And, he'd never use last names with any other women.
I noticed he'd avoid gendering me and seems to be making extra effort to avoid any pronouns at all and it's started to make me feel othered. Especially at times when I refer to myself as a woman, he kinda goes quiet.
He no longer asks about it anymore, my progress, my experience, nothing. In fact, he seems to avoid it. If he asks about my weekend and I say, "Oh, I'm going with so and so to the Renaissance Fair!" He'll respond ecstatically, we'll talk for 30 mins about it. But, if I'm like, "My sister is taking me clothes shopping!" He's like, (monotone) "Okay" then quickly changes subjects.
I know that this stuff is likely outside his scope, he has no frame of reference for me gushing over a manicure, or me being stupid excited over some tiny change in my body. But, I am excited, this is a crazy time of my life and I'm happy to experience it. It just seems like he's not only lost interest, but avoiding it altogether. I can tell how fidgety he gets when I refer to myself as a woman. I can tell it's awkward for him when I send out a pic of me literally changing with each month.
Yet, he still visits me from across the country all the time, we literally game together 3 times per week, so he's not casting me aside.
Maybe, and I think of this now as I write this, it seemed distant and far off to him, but now things are changing and perhaps he's worried about me being different. I might need to discuss with him and see if that's it and reassure him.
Though, if it's not that, any advice? Have you experienced similar? What happened for you?
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